Sometimes your life gets too busy, sometimes we are on our own and there is nothing anyone can do about it.
When you get of track in these times, what to do. Who is going to bring you back to the place where you feel motivated, save, reslieved from stress and curled up into your submissive self. Who
can do all those things for you when your husband can't. Who will give you a squeeze when you feel emotional, a stern look when you are entering the danger zone, a swat on the butt when you are cute, or not cute at all ;). Who will give you the spanking or your life when you have done something deserving of it. Who will send you comforting messages or repremanding ones through out the day?
The answer is.... no one will. This a role reserved only for the special men in our lives. They did not force it on us, we chose it.
The reality is although they are our hero's, they are not super hero's. They are human beings, with lives outside the marriage bubble. They also get tired, irretable, busy, distracted and yes although very rare emotional (in their own manly way) . Besides the fact that we can be seperated from our spouses by death any day. We can also be seperated by circumstances. They also feel that they are not in the mood to deal with our behaviour, hormones etc.
What to do, what to do? Because surely these facts I have mentioned does not change the fact that we still need what we need. This is where I think that we need to get ways to discipline ourselves and use our own strategies to get back on track on our own, knowing that when the time is ready our faithful husbands and friends will be right back there leading and taking care of us like before.
This week this got me thinking. What can I do when my husband is not able to meet my needs and to help me get back where I belong. Because I was definitely not in a good place not for me or my behind. I am tired, hormonal and just much too busy for my own good. I just want time for myself, time to recharge, time without routine and endless lists of responsibilities in one day! Monday I got in trouble, which my husband handled VERY firmly before bed time, Tuesday again and Wednesday almost! I am thankful for his constant commitment in this thing. But I want and need to find a way to get myself a plan B. I need to find a strategy to get myself back where I belong, back to my submissive, calm and happy place on my own. This will be my challenge to myself to find my own plan B and maybe a plan C and D as well;)
What about you?
When you get of track in these times, what to do. Who is going to bring you back to the place where you feel motivated, save, reslieved from stress and curled up into your submissive self. Who
can do all those things for you when your husband can't. Who will give you a squeeze when you feel emotional, a stern look when you are entering the danger zone, a swat on the butt when you are cute, or not cute at all ;). Who will give you the spanking or your life when you have done something deserving of it. Who will send you comforting messages or repremanding ones through out the day?
The answer is.... no one will. This a role reserved only for the special men in our lives. They did not force it on us, we chose it.
The reality is although they are our hero's, they are not super hero's. They are human beings, with lives outside the marriage bubble. They also get tired, irretable, busy, distracted and yes although very rare emotional (in their own manly way) . Besides the fact that we can be seperated from our spouses by death any day. We can also be seperated by circumstances. They also feel that they are not in the mood to deal with our behaviour, hormones etc.
What to do, what to do? Because surely these facts I have mentioned does not change the fact that we still need what we need. This is where I think that we need to get ways to discipline ourselves and use our own strategies to get back on track on our own, knowing that when the time is ready our faithful husbands and friends will be right back there leading and taking care of us like before.
This week this got me thinking. What can I do when my husband is not able to meet my needs and to help me get back where I belong. Because I was definitely not in a good place not for me or my behind. I am tired, hormonal and just much too busy for my own good. I just want time for myself, time to recharge, time without routine and endless lists of responsibilities in one day! Monday I got in trouble, which my husband handled VERY firmly before bed time, Tuesday again and Wednesday almost! I am thankful for his constant commitment in this thing. But I want and need to find a way to get myself a plan B. I need to find a strategy to get myself back where I belong, back to my submissive, calm and happy place on my own. This will be my challenge to myself to find my own plan B and maybe a plan C and D as well;)
What about you?