There are a few things I secretly do when he is not looking. It is things I enjoy or like to admire about him. I thought I would share them with you.
I married a handy man, so whenever he is busy in the garage he usually wears old clothes, which normally involves shirts without sleeves (you will never catch him outside the house with those). They are only for dirty work on a hot day according to him. I like to peek around the corner at the entrance of the garage and watch him work. I admire the way he walks, uses his hands and focus quietly on something. I like to admire his biceps and calf muscles as he picks up and move things around.
I married a handy man, so whenever he is busy in the garage he usually wears old clothes, which normally involves shirts without sleeves (you will never catch him outside the house with those). They are only for dirty work on a hot day according to him. I like to peek around the corner at the entrance of the garage and watch him work. I admire the way he walks, uses his hands and focus quietly on something. I like to admire his biceps and calf muscles as he picks up and move things around.
Then there are the times he gets dressed while I am still in bed, I quietly lie there and drink in every part of his body that I like. He visits the gym every day from Monday-Friday, so he really looks good, to me;).
When he has to go away for work out of town and has to sleep over then I sleep in one of his shirts and make sure it is one that smells like him, he always smells good.
I secretly admire the fact that he is someone that can survive on self- motivation most of the time. He does not need someone to motivate him or give any “build up” speeches. If he does stumble upon some motivational speeches it will help him and that motivation will remain in him from the moment he makes it his own. When he decides something it will be that way.
Whenever he is sleeping I lie down next to him and watch his face his lips, ears, eyes etc. I will put my head on his chest and focus on his heart beat or slow breathing.
I admire the fact that he is almost always right about someone. His judge of character amazes me. He is a quiet person, but whenever he makes a comment about something it always turns out the way he thought it would. Sometimes he would tell me something about a friend, for example: “be careful don’t trust her yet.” Then that friend would end up doing something that breaks my trust.
Whenever we are singing during praise and worship in our church, I sometimes close my eyes and stop singing so I can listen to him softly singing. He sings beautiful to me, although he disagrees.
We have a television in our bedroom, so when we are on our bed you can see our reflection in it like a mirror if it is off. So whenever I get spanked over his knee, I will sometimes watch him spank me, only until the third smack, since I then rather concentrate on taking the pain.
I like the way he lectures me, it is a soft, calm and deep voice.
Whenever we are in the car waiting for him outside his office I usually sit and admire him in his is working clothes as he approaches the car. Sometimes I will even tell my daughters “look at your handsome daddy”.
I like to pack his lunch box when he is not present, I usually put some sort of surprize in there whether it is a treat, his favourite sandwich, a bible verse, a short love letter or even something naughty;)
I love to watch him ride his motorbike… (Need I say more?)
I love to watch him while he plays with our daughters or the dogs. He always has this boyish, carefree look in his eyes and the most beautiful smile.
I absolutely love his naughty eyes!!
Sometimes when we are with friends and family, I will secretly just stand or sit and watch him always being himself, being for real and not fake. When he wants to help you, you will see it in his eyes.
There are a lot I do to show him I love him. To show him I adore him and how much love I experience when I am with him. But sometimes I just enjoy him when he is not even aware of it. Secretly loving him!! I think I will keep it that way, for my eyes and heart only.
I secretly admire the fact that he is someone that can survive on self- motivation most of the time. He does not need someone to motivate him or give any “build up” speeches. If he does stumble upon some motivational speeches it will help him and that motivation will remain in him from the moment he makes it his own. When he decides something it will be that way.
Whenever he is sleeping I lie down next to him and watch his face his lips, ears, eyes etc. I will put my head on his chest and focus on his heart beat or slow breathing.
I admire the fact that he is almost always right about someone. His judge of character amazes me. He is a quiet person, but whenever he makes a comment about something it always turns out the way he thought it would. Sometimes he would tell me something about a friend, for example: “be careful don’t trust her yet.” Then that friend would end up doing something that breaks my trust.
Whenever we are singing during praise and worship in our church, I sometimes close my eyes and stop singing so I can listen to him softly singing. He sings beautiful to me, although he disagrees.
We have a television in our bedroom, so when we are on our bed you can see our reflection in it like a mirror if it is off. So whenever I get spanked over his knee, I will sometimes watch him spank me, only until the third smack, since I then rather concentrate on taking the pain.
I like the way he lectures me, it is a soft, calm and deep voice.
Whenever we are in the car waiting for him outside his office I usually sit and admire him in his is working clothes as he approaches the car. Sometimes I will even tell my daughters “look at your handsome daddy”.
I like to pack his lunch box when he is not present, I usually put some sort of surprize in there whether it is a treat, his favourite sandwich, a bible verse, a short love letter or even something naughty;)
I love to watch him ride his motorbike… (Need I say more?)
I love to watch him while he plays with our daughters or the dogs. He always has this boyish, carefree look in his eyes and the most beautiful smile.
I absolutely love his naughty eyes!!
Sometimes when we are with friends and family, I will secretly just stand or sit and watch him always being himself, being for real and not fake. When he wants to help you, you will see it in his eyes.
There are a lot I do to show him I love him. To show him I adore him and how much love I experience when I am with him. But sometimes I just enjoy him when he is not even aware of it. Secretly loving him!! I think I will keep it that way, for my eyes and heart only.