Here are the questions in the box: (If it has a * then we had to guess the answer for each other before the correct answer was given)
*What is your favourite colour? Mine: Turquoise. But neither of us could decide what was his. Lol!
*What is your favourite movie? Mine: The vow, Robin Hood (with Russell Crow) to name just two, I have many. His: Taken, Brave heart, Gladiator and Fast and the furious. (There are cars in it, of course!)
*What is your favourite food? Mine: Schnitzel with baked veggies and Pizza. His macaroni and cheese, my hotdogs with my special sauce and steak.
Tell me a secret. Well obviously I can’t share that with you. ;)
What irritates you the most of me? We couldn’t think of something.
What parts of my body do you like the most? I: his whole body eyes and mouth. (He laughed at me and said you must choose one part, I couldn’t) He: my butt (I wonder why ;) and my eyes.
What do you like the most about my personality? Me: his loyalty, integrity and helpful heart. He: the fact that I have the possibility to love anybody and see the good in everything. (Aaaahh, so sweet!)
What do you like the most about our eldest daughter? Me: her creativeness and free spirit. He: the way she listens with her eyes.
What do you like the most about our youngest daughter? Me: the way she shows love and affection. He: The way she tells you a story while she smiles, she has a mischievous smile.
What do you think and feel about our DD-marriage? Me: well I had a mouth full to say. He had only one word. Satisfied. (lol)
If you can give only one prayer before you die for the three of us, what would you pray? Me: I would pray for Godly wisdom and protection. He: For provision in all things emotional, physical and spiritual and for our safety.
If you could change one thing about me what would it be? Me: give him more patience with himself. He: He would give me more self-confidence.
What is your favourite memory of our younger years together? Me: The walks we took to the park with the dogs, we day dreamed about our future. He: when we lie together on my bed and listen to music just the two of us.
It was a real good night in all ways ;) I think I finally have reached yet another milestone in my life where I learned how to let things flow, accommodating both of us even on a date night that I planned. I have learned to let God into our date nights to do His thing, nothing was forced or uncomfortable. I have also learned today after church, the sermon was about true leaders. I have learned that we have led each other through the years. I led him in my gentle way of submitting to him, respecting him the way he is and he led me to a place where I have found myself as a women, unique and accepting myself . He led me to learn how to stand up for myself, that I am not a doormat to be abused by others. He gives me strength and will power. We both are leaders playing out our different roles.